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cathrcbpidt2d
well given that it's used in places not china I was going with not calling it the chinese zodiac
aggzjkb2d
In the USA in my experience ok Cupid has way more super kinky/poly/group sex and fringe stuff. Tinder is for younger people (most are 18-21). Bumble and hinge are for 25-40
cvdmoew2d
After 40 I suppose youโ€™re left with Craigslist personals
yknulrvjw2d
I thought they banned craigslist personals?
glempfiye2d
Thatโ€™s an awesome band name
ugpwmgyde2d
Super Poly Fringe
ficwhhmng2d
Tiger king was apparently poly
htrkwqa2d
I'm digging and I am somewhat surprised there doesn't seem to be a commonly used generic name ๐Ÿค”
sghpnmrw2d
it's been interesting to watch this one couple at the hostel where I am....each day they say less and less to each other. And kudos to everyone taking this seriously. Glad to know I'm not the only one washing my hands 50+ times a day and being anti-social and of course wearing those makeshift masks!
yllwodkgwb2d
Are there still hostels open?
olukmwrd2d
if depends where you are ๐Ÿ™‚
ysblesgc2d
i'm stuck in nepal which is on lockdown. here with some travellers as we wait for flights back to our home country.
rsdray2d
should be difficult to stay anti-social in Nepal, good luck on your return!
sgctatji2d
thank you! Yes haha with a pool table here and communal meals it is definitely a challenge ๐Ÿ™‚
uzawhgaiuz2d
wow - good luck - are there going to be flights available or are those details still being worked out?
ysdlqnac2d
Whatโ€™s the situation like in Nepal?
zlfgmdey2d
I guess theyโ€™re doing a good job locking down?
bvjtapip2d
Are most places closed?
jzolyg1d
today I woke up to shouting, my neighbours were having a fight (could only hear her) with "i'm fucking tired of this fucking shit" almost screaming... ppl going nuts after 1month
xsxtcoatagqd1d
hahahaha
vmalcasrhusi1d
i mean really thatโ€™s how i feel inside
bxcnles1d
dominatrix roommate's room slap slap
hu... guess she broke quarantine
bbakwmemzlpl1d
maybe sheโ€™s slapping herself?
wjgorwc1d
prabnploynqv1d
lol how do u find these roommates?
zamdltl1d
there are extra boots at the door too
ktttjnokhbja1d
donโ€™t yโ€™all miss me as a roomie - all i have are cats and weird stories
mauuzcvfiogi1d
๐Ÿ˜†
fzlsyyd1d
this was all arraigned before lock SiP; stay at a friends place; with them and Dom roomie, then our friend was like Pleauge? I'm going to my cabin in Oregon; yall have fun.
hrwljop1d
I like her, she just has a friend over... which... I could imagine her being concerned if we did
pduwayl1d
so... kinda the elephant
puqjtxphwpvu1d
gotta bring it up
pcwamtwvogqn1d
but so awk
vknhgxp1d
it's 10am, so I don't feel bad about any noise we make in the kitchen
iaoroux1d
as they moan
bgifxvvkxxdk1d
play a documentary loudly
atplpmb1d
oh; do you have a Doc rec list?
ltwvxmw1d
I started making one
wttuacz1d
for ...the big sit in
trfrgzxkzl1d
So you are currently quarantined with a dominatrix that is still seeing clients - that will be a good story for the grandchildren somedayslightly_smiling_face
wqbyosp1d
it might just be her gf; but... that's about par for 'communal living'
lfghjlx1d
in SF bay
pdltathfiqtu1d
ooh i do have a link of climbing ones - will dm s_kolk
xiuxxwh1d
ay
cafneintgiaxtfoj1d
Once stayed in 12 person backpackers in Cairns, after a while, you got use to bunk beds rocking and rolling in the night.
mvlyroq1d
I managed a 40 person dorm/private long term stay in San Francisco; I'm not sure how they managed
ximchwfoc1d
Dear lord
vooccntfvldmr19h
If you think you have a crazy ex, I can beat you. My ex bf snuck into my apartment while I was at the park and stole my cat.
ekkurguozzsy19h
nnboyijepjqcap woah. was this recent?
flybfubtgviuq19h
Yesterday
notgcuciveabd19h
Iโ€™m heart broken
llrqjnnlnbecp19h
He was my son
hgskcisk18h
That sucks so much pmlrestpzaaxgk Iโ€™m so sorry
oovlqfqsxjrek18h
Dodged a bullet breaking up with him . . .
atylszcbxl17h
Wtf dude, seriously?
qnfohrmqmjfwx16h
Yep
osgwltppzjlrp16h
So much for civilized and mature breakups.
seqe16h
isn't that illegal/something you can go to police with?
abhwgxww15h
Why does he still have a key?
vibwqxcypyg14h
That's fucking terrible qzklxnkdvtkqer Really sorry ๐Ÿ’”
xtsjnhbfomkg13h
kmvlrceiwhbhsy wtf that's smthg u can def go to the police about
mpvqjtjmuxys13h
When my ex was behaving horrendously during his breakup at some point I went to his sister and was like "hey look I never meant to hurt your brother but he's acting insane so please do smthg about it"
xehvhasidrak13h
Also an option
vyklejqsivly13h
But ughhhh I'm sorry ur even dealing with this โ™ฅ๏ธ
lgxrrjoed13h
Yeah, try going to police for sure. I feel your pain about crazy ex.
zylmkkyukfft12h
My crazy ex once accused me of breaking into his house to steal a $10 gift that I had bought his son. Started to dial the police while yelling at me uncontrollably and I encouraged him to make the call. And then 5 minutes later he called back to say he had found the gift had fallen under his sofa. Definitely dodged a bullet on that one.
jybgzsfnj12h
> dodged a bullet
This is the important part to remember as much as possible, it helps a lot
xxmyphibfgxohhy10h
Dodged a bullet. _gets in the way of new exciting bullet - THE STORY OF MY LIFE_
cwemyfc9h
I don't know if you _dodged_ that bullet per se. I think you just took it in a non lethal place.
gsydway9h
Update on my situation - I've decided that paying $100/night for an airbnb is worth it at this point and I'm moving out of her apartment. She's not crazy, she just has nothing interesting to say but insist on filling any silence with her voice anyways. If I am reading a book I will be interrupted. If I play a computer game she will wave in front of the screen. She is nice but I cannot live like this any longer.
stlmflvjiibk9h
did you realize she was far more extroverted than you before? lawl
dngrzroqawyi9h
or have you actually ever just told her you need quiet time?
lrufosp9h
i've been big on establishing and enforcing a "headphones rule", like if one of us is doing something with headphones on and the other person wants to just chat.. send a text ๐Ÿ˜‚
zepungarfwsk9h
๐Ÿ‘
ciimdrr9h
things like this sound weird when explained in text for some reason lol, but it was mostly a work policy that we've extended to general use since we both like having our "me time" and getting a text lets you wrap up what you're doing or decide when you want to re-engage
mcmxsaz8h
It's funny because I'm quite extroverted. But yes.
roydiwvko7h
nhxukjss Can you give a TLDR; wasn't reading chat for last couple of days?
rbhyhie6h
we're doing the same
qzpaaqehqytwijw6h
SEX WAS FUN BUT NOT WORTH IT, THE END
dqtwwpi6h
TLDR; Upon returning to the USA I decided to stay with a girl who I very casually dated for a short period of time despite warning signs. Entertainment ensured.
cztwlphcjua6h
ehptzaoo this makes me realize another reason why I cannot cohabit with someone else I like silence
vileiogzetz6h
so basically I'd have to be wearing headphones with nothing on
ldfczzbkofi6h
which would just be...... weird
gvdcsvgmzrg6h
hilarious too, I guess
dhocgkn5h
I usually prefer cohabitation to living alone but this is EXTREME cohabitation. It's also coworking.
lhmmlmihoat5h
I am not sure if there is a single person on the planet who I could like romantically and want to shelter in place with
rapzplugyfmipdi5h
What would suck is if you shelter with someone thinking you were getting some sex and don't get any.
bhuqrbbdryb5h
jsjayworxldc I'm pretty sure there is nobody in the world, liking romantically or platonically, I could shelter in place with
wrqtbus5h
honestly it has kinda made it better in some ways haha
ttuslkm5h
like, there are obviously tough parts with cohabitation + coworking
bmoaama5h
but.. i feel like having someone around definitely helps contain my negative tendencies when isolated
yuxiiwf5h
i have to at least try to make it until some respectable time to start drinking
xcxtqvz5h
and i would probably otherwise not shower very oftne
rxlnqmvwcyo5h
I lived on a sailboat for 2 years with a partner, and that worked out really well. But nothing lasts forever
xewvcma5h
I can think of a few people I wouldn't mind hanging out with... but they're all 10,000+ km away.
ckzzuga5h
also i do think it's important to have enough space if you're going to succeed at living with someone through something like this
bwywhoe5h
having an extra bedroom that has a desk in it is probably the reason it has gone as well as it has so far lol
mgmtoyw4h
Yeah a little space goes a LONG way
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