how are you getting around the 3-month limit on the visa? (sorry i have not done much research on what the rules are for spouses of students…)
i know in general unless you are enrolled in a learning program, or have a work visa, you’re limited to a 3-month stay. for that they do not ask for you to prove finances.
when i went to london, the border patrol did not ask for any proof of finances, but they did ask more questions than when i went to amsterdam - they wanted phone numbers / addresses of where i was staying. they wanted to see my return ticket, etc. not too onerous but more than the quick glance and stamp i got at AMS.